Can't Orgasm Since Menopause
Dear Betty,I am in the late stages of menopause and have been having trouble reaching orgasm. My history has been that I have only been able to have an orgasm via oral sex or with a vibrator. Lately,...
View ArticleWife Has Pain During Intercourse
i like sex. my wife desire is low and when she has sex it is painful and she would rather have nothing inserted. main position is like missionary but her legs closed and straight while my legs are...
View ArticleMenopause Killed My Libido
I entered menopause at age 41 and am now 49. I completely lost my libido and in spite of trying HRT (testosterone) treatments, etc. it hasn't returned. My brain tells me I should want to have sex and I...
View ArticleI Urinated During Clitoral Orgasm *blushes*
I have been using an Hitachi Magic Wand for a number of months now with no problem reaching an orgasm within the first few minutes without anything out of the ordinary happening. However, the past two...
View ArticleWife Has No Sex Drive After Menopause
My wife and I have not had sex for over six months. I am 65 and she is 58. She is going through (or has gone through) menopause. It was tough for her. Terrible hot flahses. She still has occasional hot...
View ArticleOrgasms Back Stronger Than Ever, Thanks Betty!
erotica1-1.jpgThanks Betty for inspiring so many and reigniting the sexual urges that all to often get buried deep under all the business in our lives. Our sex life was growing stale until my husband...
View ArticleHow Do I Survive as Sexual Woman After Breast Cancer?
Single, age 68 (very young), not in a relationship, but interested, hysterectomy at age 44, on estrogen replacement for over 20 years till last year, testosterone cream (a little) for 2-3 years till...
View ArticleSexual Awakening at 40
Dear Betty & Carlin: I am in my mid 40s, and during the past 6 months I have had a huge sexual awakening and catharsis which I attribute to hormonal fluctuations (perimenopause maybe?) and hence, a...
View ArticleI Have Found the Courage to be the Real Me
I wasn’t looking for what I found when I found Betty, my teacher and mentor. I was looking for something but what I found was different than what I thought I was going to find. Even when I found her...
View ArticleMenopause & Hormone Replacement: One Sexologist’s Personal Experience
hormonerepla.jpgTo my knowledge, there is no one-size-fits-all solution for a woman to remain vaginally active long past menopause without some kind of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT). It's...
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